As Mother’s Day approaches, I find myself thinking more often about how much I appreciate all the moms in my life. They have each given me so much, and Mother’s Day offers an opportunity to give back – if I could think of something fitting to give them.
My mom doesn’t much care for gifts – never has. As a mom myself, I can understand. There’s nothing – no products or gift certificates or even hand-made keepsakes – I’d rather have than the things I get every day from being with my kiddos: playtime in the sunshine, bouquets of dandelions, observations about the world from a new perspective.
My mother-in-law is a cherished friend, someone who has always offered love and support and pictures of her latest creative projects. Although she lives 2,500 miles away in Alaska, I feel like we grow closer all the time.
My son’s birth mom already gave me the greatest gift a mom can give by supporting our adoption. It was the most brave, selfless act I have ever witnessed in my life, and a source of inspiration for me every day. It just so happens that Mother’s Day arrives shortly before my son’s birthday. Where would I be without these two people? How much emptier would my life be without my son – his mother’s gift?
No, I don’t really need anything more for Mother’s Day.
Well, a nap would be nice.